Month: July 2024

In a poignant exploration of the intricacies of surrogacy, Moshe Ndiki’s experience has shed light on the emotional complexities faced by both intended parents and surrogate mothers.Amidst the joy of welcoming twins into his life, Moshe has found himself navigating a delicate situation as his surrogate struggles to come to terms with the fact that the twins belong to him and not her.

 

 

 

 

The story has sparked a broader discussion on the nature of parental bonds and the ethical considerations surrounding surrogacy.

Moshe Ndiki, a beloved figure in the South African entertainment industry, recently became a father to twins through surrogacy, fulfilling a long-held dream of parenthood. While the arrival of the twins brought immense joy and fulfillment to Moshe’s life, it also exposed the emotional complexities inherent in the surrogacy process.

The surrogate, whose identity remains undisclosed, played a pivotal role in bringing Moshe’s dream of parenthood to fruition. However, as the biological mother of the twins, she found herself grappling with conflicting emotions upon their birth. Despite her role as a gestational carrier, she struggled to reconcile her biological connection to the twins with the reality that they belonged to Moshe.

The situation highlights the nuanced dynamics that can arise in surrogacy arrangements, where the boundaries between biological ties and parental rights can become blurred.

While surrogates typically enter into agreements with the understanding that they are carrying a child for someone else, the emotional bond formed during pregnancy can complicate matters, leading to feelings of attachment and possessiveness.

For Moshe, navigating the delicate balance between gratitude for the surrogate’s role in his journey to parenthood and asserting his rights as the children’s legal father has proven challenging. While he remains grateful for her selflessness and sacrifice, he is also mindful of the need to establish clear boundaries and protect his role as the twins’ parent.The situation has sparked a broader conversation about the ethical considerations surrounding surrogacy and the need for greater support and guidance for all parties involved. Surrogacy agreements often focus on legal and logistical aspects, but the emotional well-being of both intended parents and surrogates is equally important and deserving of attention.

As Moshe and his surrogate navigate the complexities of their relationship in the aftermath of the twins’ birth, their story serves as a reminder of the profound impact that surrogacy can have on the lives of all involved. While it is a journey fraught with challenges and uncertainties, it also offers the possibility of creating new families and fulfilling long-held dreams of parenthood.

In the end, Moshe Ndiki’s experience serves as a catalyst for greater awareness and understanding of the emotional complexities of surrogacy. By sharing his story with openness and honesty, he invites us to contemplate the nature of parental bonds and the profound ways in which they are forged, transcending biological ties and legal agreements to encompass love, compassion, and mutual respect.

Sophie Ndaba Sophie Ndaba Opens Up About Her Battle with Depression and Weight Loss
Celebrated actress Sophie Ndaba, famously known as Queen Moroka from Generations, is sharing a remarkable journey of triumph over her struggles with mental well-being. In recent years, the 49-year-old star faced a tough battle with depression after enduring significant weight loss due to a diabetes diagnosis.

Now, with newfound strength, Ndaba is joining the conversation as a guest panelist on the second season of Mzansi Magic’s captivating series, Black Conversations. This four-part series delves into important topics concerning the black community, including spirituality, pride, mental health, love, storytelling, and success.

Ndaba expressed, “I often wondered about the spirit of Ubuntu. It’s not always easy for others to understand the challenges you face or the battles you’re fighting. But having the support of people in your corner means the world.”

Reflecting on her past, she shared, “I went through so much in these past years. I weighed 85kg and lost almost half of that. During that time, all I really needed to hear, especially from those closest to me, was ‘You’re going to be okay’. Some cheered me on, but disappointingly, those I expected more from said hurtful things.”

This is why Ndaba is excited to speak on the topic of mental health. She has learned to navigate people’s opinions about her and not let them define her worth. “I was told I wouldn’t find love because of how I looked. I’m excited to share how I chose to stop letting anyone’s opinion affect me.”

Joining her on this season’s panel are well-known figures like Sello Maake ka Ncube, Zola, Rorisang Thandekiso, Bishop Joshua Maponga, Jackie Phamotse, and the dynamic duo Tbose and Mapaseka Mokwele.“I’m proudly black. I couldn’t pass up the chance to be part of a cast discussing topics about our black culture and our true essence. These conversations are essential because we often get caught up in other things and forget who we are,” Ndaba shared. She emphasized the importance of parents reminding their children of their history and identity to help them make wise life choices and cultivate strong minds.

Ndaba also highlighted the influence of international trends on Generation Z through social media, urging them not to forget their African heritage.

She recounted her journey, from becoming a young mother in her teens to her rise in the entertainment industry. Ndaba couldn’t attend university due to financial constraints, leading her to explore modeling. However, she found her true passion by training as a casting director’s apprentice, leading her to television roles.Growing up in Zimbabwe, she faced language barriers upon returning to South Africa. An audition with a white director eventually landed her the iconic role of Queen Moroka.

Sophie Ndaba’s story is one of resilience, growth, and embracing one’s identity against all odds. Her journey serves as an inspiration to many, reminding us that we can overcome challenges and define our own paths, regardless of the obstacles we face.

Belinda Gwala, a content creator and sister of former Imbewu: The Seed actress Phindile Gwala, has captured the hearts of South Africans with a humorous and skillful video. In the video, Belinda showcases her unique talent by catching a chicken, eating it, and then feeding it to another chicken.The video, shared on her Instagram account, quickly gained traction and has now amassed an impressive 14 million views. Social media users were enthralled by her fearless and witty performance, expressing their amusement and admiration for her chicken-catching abilities. Belinda’s video trended on Twitter and went viral on various platforms, earning praise for her entertaining and daring character.

Eskom Youth Employment Service (YES) Opportunities for Unemployed Youth in South Africa

 

MINIMUM REQUIREMENTS
Must be a South African Citizen
Aged between 18 to 34
Grade 12 or equivalent
Should not have been employed permanently with a single employer continuously for more than 1 year
Should not be studying full-time in the year of employment
Should not have participated/registered on the YES initiative before
Applicants will go through a recruitment process
KEY RESPONSIBILITIES
The Youth Employment Service (YES) is part of the public-private initiative led by the Presidency to address the youth unemployment crisis in South Africa. Eskom is actively creating work opportunities for unemployed youth, in line with the BBBEE definition.

This initiative offers a life-changing first work experience in the exciting energy industry. Successful candidates will be given a 12-month contract.

Eskom is committed to equality, employment equity, and diversity. In line with Eskom’s employment equity plan and goals, preference may be given to candidates from under-represented designated groups, although it is not limited to them. Candidates with disabilities are encouraged to apply for positions.

Renowned actress Connie Ferguson has launched a new collection, marking an exciting addition to her already impressive career in the entertainment and business industries. The collection showcases her unique style and dedication to excellence, reflecting her personal taste and commitment to quality.

Fans and followers have expressed their excitement and support for Connie’s latest venture, anticipating the impact it will have in the fashion world. The launch is another testament to her versatility and entrepreneurial spirit.

We recently launched our expanded and rebranded collection featuring diverse self-care products, including body lotions, body butters, facial care products, hair care, firming products, and nutritional supplements.

Developed with the latest skincare technology and high-quality ingredients, our new collection embodies our commitment to self-care, empowerment, and confidence.

Famous Mzansi singer, and dancer, Babes Wodumo has shared an emotional WhatsApp voice message to her late husband Big Nuz member Mandla “Mampintsha” Maphumulo, who died on December 24 2022 after complications from a stroke.

The singer is heard expressing her love for Mampintsha while crying in November 2023.

“I want you to know one thing. I love you. I will always love you. I love you baby. I know you don’t like it when I cry but I love you.”

When recently celebrating Mampintsha’s heavenly birthday, Babes took to Instagram, posting memories they shared together.

Babes has been openly grieving the loss of the father of her son.

After the funeral, Babes had to face the reality that her husband was dead and she was left to pick up the pieces as a single mother to their two-year-old son. Babes’ sister Nondumiso Simelane told TshisaLIVE the Wololo hitmaker was struggling to come to terms with the death of her partner.

“The sad thing is the bed is empty and she needs to take up more responsibilities. Babes is strong. What I like about her is she didn’t change her character,” Nondumiso said.

She said a grieving Babes catches herself calling out for her sweetheart.

gets married

well-known South African soccer star Sphiwe Msimango is officially off the market after getting cuffed to his long-time partner!

Congratulatory messages flooded the Kaizer Chiefs player’s Instagram timeline on Monday after he revealed he was traditionally married.

Sphiwe shared a picture of himself with his partner, who wore traditional attire, when announcing the news on his timeline.

“A promise fulfilled,” he captioned the post.

Podcast Affirmation host Nokuthula “Nox” Khasibe recently tied the knot with Mbongeni “Pastor G” Ngwenya in a traditional ceremony.

“We’ve known each other from church but we were not dating at the time and we met again in 2022. He was going through the most in his previous marriage,” Nox told the publication.
“We’ve been through trials and tribulations until we got where we are now. I’ve been there for him as a support structure,” she said.

MK Party deputy secretary-general Arthur Zwane and Gagasi FM DJ Happygal were among the political figures and celebrities who attended the ceremony in Waterloo, north of Durban

Her mother, fellow musician Winnie Khumalo, shared the news on social media and asked the public to pray for her recovery.

 
Rethabile has been joyful about becoming a mother and after recently releasing her latest EP.In November, she announced the arrival of her baby boy.

She shared on Instagram on Youth Day that she had also released a new song, “Egagile.”

But Winnie has shared concerning news that her daughter has undergone three operations and has been in hospital for six days.

She wrote on Instagram: “So I thought I will keep quiet until my daughter is ok … she is fighting for her life .. She was p by a so called friend.”

She added in the post: “It has been six days now in hospital…So i decided it’s only fair to share with her supporters these sad news… They did 3 operations on her already we hoping that @rethabile_rsa will soon recover but at the moment akukho kuhle… She has been on and off… When you pray please include her in your prayers… Ubunzima bokuba umzali, (the hardships of being a parent).”@zamo_dlamini commented: “Speedy recovery to our princess…. ❤️.”

@nhlanhla_mafu wrote: “We are praying for her sthandwa sami , nakanjani uzonqoba u Retha❤️🙏.”
@Jay_Dant wrote on X: “How sad, such a unproblematic young lady.”@ellias_motau wrote: “Enemies are people you know, people you share your good news with, people who share table with, people who pretend to care when God levels you up. Never keep your enemies closer that can be the end of you. Don’t trust anyone.”