Mpumelelo Mseleku, son of the renowned South African polygamist Musa Mseleku, recently expressed his deep feelings for his children. Amid the complexities of his personal life, including the recent developments involving his ex-girlfriend, , Mpumelelo’s message resonated widely, sparking both empathy and critique online.
Mpumelelo, affectionately known as “Sbindi,” is on a steadfast journey toward embracing polygamy, a path that mirrors that of his father. Despite his recent breakup with Vuyokazi, who has since married another partner—a move accompanied by the payment of lobola—Mpumelelo remains committed to his belief in polygamous marriage. His insistence on marrying three wives has not wavered, even in the face of his former partner moving on so quickly.
Mpumelelo said:
“That will never change. I’ve made up my mind. She wanted out, and I supported her decision. I said I would marry three wives, and that number won’t change, whether she’s there or not,”.
The emotional words Mpumelelo shared was not just an expression of love but also a plea to his children, urging them never to feel abandoned, regardless of the turmoil that has recently unfolded in his personal life. This message comes after a time of considerable public scrutiny, especially with Vuyokazi publicly celebrating her new marriage. The couple shares two children, and the end of their relationship has been fraught with challenges, resulting in a messy and often painful public dialogue.
The social media reactions to Mpumelelo’s posts have been mixed. While some followers offered sympathy and encouragement, emphasizing the importance of co-parenting for the sake of their children, others were less kind. The comments ranged from sarcastic quips about Vuyokazi’s new partner, an international chef, to straightforward critiques about what Mpumelelo lost in his relationship. This spectrum of responses highlights the complexities and varied perspectives surrounding public breakups, especially in the context of adult relationships and parenting.
In a conversation with Daily Sun, Mpumelelo expressed that Vuyokazi’s new marriage was not surprising to him, indicating that their problems had escalated to a point that made reconciliation difficult. He emphasized his commitment to non-violence, revealing that had their conflicts turned physical, the outcome of their relationship could have been profoundly different. His statements about his upbringing and respect for women reflect a personal ethos that he seems determined to uphold.
As for his dreams of a polygamous family, Mpumelelo is resolute. “I’ve made up my mind. She wanted out, and I supported her decision,” he stated. His desire to wed multiple wives stands as a testament to his beliefs and his conviction that this lifestyle is right for him, irrespective of his past relationship.
In a Daily Sun interview, Mpumelelo Mseleku stated:
“I’m at peace and the only things I ask for are money and life. I won’t beg for a person. I’m happy for her. I don’t hold bad feelings because my own plans wouldn’t work out if I did. You should be at peace with everyone. That’s why even when I get angry, you’ll still see me smiling,”