Pinky Bala from The Bala Family and Mudi Mudau, who plays Khadikhulu in Queen Modjadji, are two influential TV matriarchs.In the grand tapestry of life, few threads are as strong and enduring as those woven by the matriarchs of our families.
These women, the steadfast pillars of their homes, hold everything together with a grace and strength that is nothing short of remarkable.
THE MATRIARCHS OF OUT TV SCREENS
As we celebrate National Women’s Day, it’s fitting to turn our attention to the matriarchs on our TV screens who embody these qualities and more.
Two standout matriarchs, Pinky Bala from The Bala Family and Mudi Mudau, who plays Khadikhulu in Queen Modjadji, have captivated audiences with their portrayals of strong women at the heart of their families.
Their stories resonate deeply, reflecting the power of presence, love, and resilience.
THE MATRIARCH: PINKY BALA, THE HEARTBEAT OF THE BALA FAMILY
Pinky Bala, affectionately known as ‘Dabs weCountry’ (the aunty of the country), has become a beloved figure on South African television.
As the only daughter among her famous brothers—Zwai, Loyiso, and Phelo Bala—Pinky’s role in The Bala Family has shown her as the glue that holds the family together.
THE MATRIARCH AND ELDEST DAUGHTER
Now in its second season, the reality show continues to explore the dynamics of this talented but imperfect family, with Pinky at the helm, according to IOL.
“I am the eldest daughter, the only girl child, followed by three younger brothers,” Pinky shared in a candid interview.
THE MATRIARCH AND FOCUSING ON FAMILY
“I’m family-oriented, I love people, and I enjoy entertaining family and friends. Ndithanda ipeace (I love peace).”
Pinky’s journey hasn’t been without challenges, according to Briefly News.
She revealed that learning to listen has been her greatest lesson.
“Communication wasn’t a big thing in our family; we weren’t raised to sit down and talk. The biggest lesson has been addressing the issues we have as a family, while remaining respectful.”
LOVE EACH OTHER
Her advice to herself, and perhaps to others, is deeply insightful.
“We are not unique from other families. Even though our issues are publicised, we are no different from other families.
The beauty is that we are healing other families. So, my advice is that we should not give up loving each other because we can choose friends, but we can’t choose family.”
THE MATRIARCH: MUDI MUDAU, THE UNYIELDING KHADIKHULU
Mudi Mudau’s portrayal of Khadikhulu in Queen Modjadji has also left a mark on viewers.
As the king’s sister and a matriarch, Khadikhulu embodies strength, wisdom, and a deep love for her family and community.
Her character faces complex challenges, navigating cultural expectations and the burdens of leadership in a male-dominated world.
PILLAR OF THE FAMILY
“Khadikhulu is the king’s sister, a matriarch, a pillar to the family and the community,” Mudi explained. “She is the voice of reason, strives for peace, and promotes love.”
Playing Khadikhulu has taught Mudi valuable lessons about understanding and compassion, according to Times Live.
“It taught me not to be too judgmental. As I connected with the character, I understood that sometimes people do things because of certain circumstances and the time they live in.”
KHADI-COOL
When asked if she would trade places with any other character on television, Mudi’s response was firm.
“I would still be Khadikhulu because she is the coolest—she is ‘khadi-cool’.
She represents positivity, strength, and women empowerment.”
EMPOWERING WOMEN THROUGH STORYTELLING
Both Pinky and Mudi believe in the power of storytelling to empower women.
Mudi applauded Mzansi Magic for telling authentic stories like Queen Modjadji, which highlight the strength and complexity of women in positions of power.
“Telling stories that reflect women in positions of power is a step towards empowerment,” Mudi said.
CELEBRATING REMARKABLE WOMEN
As we celebrate these remarkable women on our screens, we also celebrate the real-life matriarchs who inspire them.
Their strength, love, and unyielding commitment to their families are the cornerstones upon which homes are built.
This National Women’s Day, let us honour and celebrate the matriarchs—the true architects of our homes and the keepers of our legacies. Happy Women’s Day!