Musa Mseleku is a well known polygamist with four wives. His family became famous on 2016 when their reality show debuted on national TV. Musa has proved to be a successful polygamist because of how he lives with his family. In most cases men who have multiple women/wives fail to support them or take responsibility but the Durban polygamist is not like that, he takes care of his wives and kids. Each wife has her own house where she stays with her kids and a few cars. The women are all independent but their husband still plays a role as the head of the family.
This man treats these women fairly and make sure they all get the same thing but it’s known even parents can have kids, love all of them and provide them with their needs but there’s always going to be the most favored one or the most preferred one. In my opinion it’s the same with this Polygamist and here are my reasons.
Ma Cele
She’s the first wife and the one who allowed this whole setup to happen. I don’t think she’s the favouite because this man still married three more wives after her. Ma Cele just get recognized because of the tittle of being the first wife but she’s the most disrespected one.
Ma Yeni
She’s the second wife but it has been reported that Musa dated her first before marrying his first wife. This means he went back to her after settling down with Ma Cele. I feel like this is his true love. Musa even shows more affection when he is with her and his face lights up when they are together.
Ma Khumalo
Thobile has been hurt the most in this marriage because of not being able to have her own kids. This is the most difficult thing any woman could go through. What hurt the most is that she can have a child if she uses other fertility methods but her husband is against that as he says they are Africans and do not do things in a western way. I feel like Musa is being selfish and unfair to MaKhumalo.
Ma Ngwabe